R U Folding like a Paper Fan?
My post yesterday on Karma reminded me of a recent conversation.
“Oh man!” A guy in my taxicab heaves a sigh of resignation. “I give up on getting my ex girlfriend back.”
“So you’re folding up like a paper fan?”
“What else can I do? Karma has decreed that I have to settle for less.”
“And what did you do to merit such a terminal sentence from Karma?” I asked but didn’t wait for an answer. “I do know how karma works and you don’t get bad back unless you earn it.”
“I’ve done everything to get my ex girlfriend back.”
“Everything is a very big word. The entire past, present and future population of the world could take continuous actions for eternity and still they wouldn’t have done everything.”
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“Well, I’ve bashed my head against a solid wall for long enough.”
“If you had really done it enough, then we wouldn’t be having this defeatist conversation about getting your ex girlfriend back because you would’ve done it enough to be successful. After a guy has bashed his head against a solid wall for too long, he comes to one of two conclusions. The easy option is to go looking for a weaker wall. The other way is to strengthen your head and then bash through.”
“I don’t like the sound of that lesser wall. I just want my ex girlfriend back. She was perfect for me.”
“But you obviously weren’t perfect for her.”
“She liked me well enough at first.”
“Then she realized that you didn’t have either vision or staying power. She didn’t relish a future chained to a quitter who would quickly blame karma for a lack of success that was actually owed to his shortage of determination.”
“That’s kinda harsh!”
“It’s fairly realistic though, isn’t it?”
“I’ll keep trying.” He said resignedly.
“That would be pointless. You’ve already badly bruised your forehead without leaving any chinks in your ex girlfriend’s armor. In fact, your feeble efforts have just made her strengthen her resolve against you. Before you go back to her again, you need to toughen up your skull. Then you can overwhelm a wall that isn’t strong enough to hold you at bay. And when you DO break-through with your ex girlfriend, just that will absolutely prove to her that she is with the right guy for her.”
“How do I do that?”
“Well to start with….” I won’t write my full answer here, because I’ve sprinkled this post with links to the head strengthening solutions.
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