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ROBBED at gunpoint!

Tuesday, July 28th, 2009

Is there something you can learn by being robbed at gunpoint?

This is how TW Jackson explains in the Magic Of Making Up System

After your initial contact…you want to set up your “1st Date” again.  AND…the MOST important part, the secret and the part nobody else but T Dub will tell ya :-) …is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.

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Okay?

That DOES NOT mean ‘dinner and a movie’ because…well…it’s BORING…and does not
create a bonding…or in our case a RE-bonding experience. In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.

Why?

If you just do ‘dinner and a movie’ you lose out on a Sociologically PROVEN principle…emotionally charged experiences = bond

Look at it in another way. Last time you went to the bank, do you remember the person in line in front of you? Behind you? Probably not. Me either.

But… What if while you were in the bank, it was ROBBED AT GUNPOINT? and the robbers couldn’t get the safe open. The robbers are livid,  screaming and waving huge guns around. The tension feels so thick you could cut through it with a knife.

You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.

girls approach you

Girls Approach You

You are trembling…because it is eerily silent for a moment.

“Oh my god!”

“Where are the robbers?”

“Are they behind me?”

“Are they watching me?”

So you slowly move your eyes around and see a sweet older lady lying right next to you.

She looks a little like Grandma, and you come out of your own haze enough to realize that she
is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.

You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours and give her a little squeeze that says…”it’s gonna
be all right.”

NOW!

Let me ask?

Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?

and…

Do you think she will EVER forget you?

Not in a million Sundays!

Now…I’m not saying to go rob a bank on
your first date! LOL.

But you want to go on an EMOTIONALLY charged and exciting date…and preferably several
mini-dates in a span of a couple hours. A short roller coaster ride is one GREAT example.

T Dub teaches you more about things like emotionally charged dates in the Magic Of Making Up System.

You’ll also discover psychological tactics and techniques you can use to get you BACK on that first date with your ex again.

Get a special unannounced bonus called ‘Mind Magic’ when you reserve your copy of the Magic Of Making Up through this special link: The Magic of Making Up

Bestowing trust – you get what you give

Monday, July 20th, 2009

You broke up with your ex over something.  He/she cheated, hurt you or something else.  Now you want to get back together but whatever it was that broke your trust is now in written in a history book.  How can you bestow your trust again.  Should you bestow trust again?

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Safely Find Out for Certain

I told someone they might try setting up a form of test.  Give the person an opportunity to break the trust again, but where you have a way of monitoring whether they do or not.  But that’s really just a game you are plying with them.  The real trust you bestow shouldn’t be based on the result of a head game. You get what you give and your playing head games will only get them returned to you.

I have a another suggestion for rebuilding solid trust-just do it-bestow the trust.  This advice is based on my firm belief that ‘You always get what you give.’  Another way is to say ‘what goes around comes around’.  Did you REALLY trust him/her before?  That ‘get what you give’ thing means that if you were just pretending to trust him/her and expecting a betrayal, then you got back exactly what you gave.

If you honestly trusted him/her and they still betrayed you, then you might consider moving on to someone you can intrinsically bestow trust in. The Magic of Making Up has more good information on rebuilding a relationship and bestowing trust again. The ‘get what you give’ philosophy is expanded on in ‘the Secret‘ and ‘the Law of Attraction‘.

How Can I Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend

Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

It’s not just the girls that involve me in their relationship dilemma either.  I had a guy in my car that asked, “How Can I Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend”.  Then he asked me to do about the stupidest thing imaginable.  He was already exceptionally drunk, and he wanted to go over to her palace, wake her up and beg his ex girlfriend to get back together with him.

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“Either I take you to your house to sleep it off,” I said, “or we can drive around and I’ll tell you how you can get back together with your ex girlfriend.”  And that’s just what we did – for over two hours while I answered his question of ‘how can I get back together with my ex girlfriend’.

Sometimes when a relationship comes to an abrupt end, either one or both parties involved may still be in doubt that the end is really the end, and this is especially true when a relationship is new. Some men simply cannot accept the fact that their girlfriend walked away. Therefore, they find themselves still hoping she’ll still be there in the morning and that it was all a dream. Are you asking “How can I get back together with my ex girlfriend”, it is important that you create a plan regarding how to do it.

In order to get back together with your ex girlfriend, there are numerous steps to take. Here are some of the tips that you should keep in mind when working through this process.

There is always a second chance for everyone, so it’s not impossible for you to get back together with your ex girlfriend. But first, you should ask yourself some questions Do you still love her? Do you really want her back? Why? Are you trying to get her back because you don’t want to be alone, or you don’t believe you should have been dumped? If you are looking to get back with your ex for reasons other than love, you may be playing a dangerous game that would be better off avoided.

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“Dude!” I said.  Chill put a bit.  Do not appear desperate or needy to your girlfriend if your priority is ‘how can I get back together with my ex girlfriend?’ Although you may feel desperate, and you may really want her back, you absolutely need to control your emotions, keeping them to yourself. If you cannot help them, then it may be wise to talk to your friends or family so you can cry your heart out where she cannot see. Do not beg or cry in front of your girlfriend, however, and absolutely do not stalk her or have a taxi drive you over to her place at three AM when you’re loaded.”

Make Your Ex Girlfriend Chase You

Make Your Ex Girlfriend Chase You

Learn how to control your feelings, forgetting about self pity and instead working on the positive aspects of working things through with your ex. If you appear too needy, or if you come off as too desperate, she may end up avoiding you even more.

Keep the communication lines with your ex open. She may have ended the relationship, but you just need to make her feel like communication lines are open and that you want to be civil. You do not have to be the one initiating the conversation, but you should be willing to say hello and have a conversation occasionally with her, keeping in touch casually.

Above all else, analyze what went awry with the relationship. There must have been a problem that led to the end of the relationship, so find out what the problem was if you want to get back together with your ex. Find out what caused the arguments, of which of her needs weren’t being met, and work on rectifying those issues.

Or maybe you could snag an even BETTER girlfriend

How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend

Sunday, July 12th, 2009

How To Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend

Sacrifice and compromise are both critical parts in the give and take that goes hand in hand with any relationship. If you are asking “How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?” then you are going to need to keep these things in mind. Nothing is going to make mending a broken relationship simple, but some of the advice contained within this article can certainly make it a lot less difficult overall to give him a reason to want to come back to you.

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So while you may be obsessing with the all important question, “how can I get back together with my ex boyfriend?”, what you need to be focusing on is rectifying the causes of failure. By doing so you will be able to eliminate the tension and stress which brought the split on in the first place.

So, How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend, you ask?

When a relationship fails, you need to take that as an indication that something went wrong. If your boyfriend left you, then it was likely for one of two reasons: Either the relationship was becoming stale because there was not enough of you in it, or the relationship was getting too claustrophobic because there was too much of you in it. Either way, one of these causes is going to lead to relationship suicide. If you are asking “How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend”, then you need to start looking at which of these led to the break up so you can act accordingly.

Whatever the issue is that chiefly contributed to the split, it was probably either something that you did, or something that you didn’t do. It may be harsh to look at things this way, but that is simply how it usually works. The person who was broken up with either did, or did not do something and the person doing the splitting simply felt driven away. So now what happens, and how can you manage to get him to come back? The first step is to change whatever it was that drove him away in the first place.

You need to sit down and really take a hard look at your situation. What could have led to the breakup? Which of these things were your fault, and which were not your fault?

Rule out the ones that were out of your control, since they continue to be out of your control, and focus on the things that you did do wrong, the ones that you can in fact change. If your biggest problem is something that you were responsible for and that you could change, then there is a very good chance that you can still get back together with him. However, you must be certain you really are willing to make the necessary changes to appeal to him again.

Just knowing how to get back together with your ex boyfriend is not enough. It won’t happen unless you are willing to take action. Now!

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What Can I Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

“What Can I Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?”

The girl asks me as I’m driving her over to his place. She doesn’t want to go inside, she has just hired me to circle his block so she can see if there are lights in his window. She is frustrated and goes on to explain the rest of what she’s been doing to regain him.

“Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your ex boyfriend away further?” I ask an she nods with tears in her eyes.

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“Obviously right now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship,” I suggested, “which is what led you to jump into my. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.”

“If he saw me right now,” the girl scrunched down in her seat, “he would think I was stalking him.”

“Circling his place in a taxi is fairly close to stalking.” I try to inject some humor. “Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! Those aren’t helping you to get your ex boyfriend back. Stop doing those things right now and follow this strategy instead.”

“You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking contact off for a while, doing your own thing. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex boyfriend, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life, rather than focusing on the relationship issues at hand. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require discipline to prevent you from returning to your old ways.”

“During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him. You may become mysterious to him in some ways, because he is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which is not possible when you are smothering him–or almost stalking him.”

You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering ‘What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back’, now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place.’

“You might want to try something extremely powerful too. Binaural Beats will help you to focus your subconscious mind to the desired result. There is NOTHING more powerful than the human mind and frequency harmonics harnesses that power for you.

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“Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him. Make yourself appear mysterious and he will be reminded why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don’t over do it) and let him make the first move, and you will come out on top. And then you will stop asking ‘What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back’.